Monthly Archives: July 2011

Disease of Me

An Excerpt from Alan Stein’s Blog

Many kids today don’t understand that basketball is a we game – not a me game.  They play for the scorebook, not the scoreboard. Am I allowed one more cliché? They play for the name on the back of their jersey instead of the name on the front.  OK, I think 3 overused coaching clichés should suffice in getting my point across.

Kidding aside, there are 3 symptoms of the ‘disease of me’ – each of which severely stagnates a player’s growth and development. Having worked a ton of camps and events this summer, I have seen each of these symptoms from players of every age and every level:

1.    Too cool

2.    Too good

3.    Too shy

Too cool: This symptom is rampant… in fact it is a borderline epidemic. Players are too cool to listen when a coach is talking, too cool to show enthusiasm during drills, too cool to warm-up properly, too cool to get on the floor for a loose ball or take a charge, and too cool let the people around them know that they don’t understand something or need some help.  Players are often more concerned with ‘how they look’ than ‘how they perform.’  To paraphrase Woody Harrelson in White Men Can’t Jump – players that are too cool would ‘rather look good and lose than look bad and win.’ 

Too good: This symptom is tricky… because it is actually an illusion.  The players who think they are too good – actually aren’t! They aren’t anywhere close to being good enough, much less too good!  They are so hypnotized by their ranking, or brainwashed by their entourage, that they won’t admit they have areas of their game that need improvement. They are too good to work on their left, too good to work on their footwork, or too good to work on their mid-range game.  Who needs to be able to do those things when you can dribble between your legs 19 times in a row or dunk the ball with ease? Players that are too good are often shoot 1st, pass 2nd type players.  Actually, they are usually shoot 1st, shoot 2nd, and don’t pass type players. They never bother with making those around them better.  If a teammate can’t hold their own on the court… that is their problem.

Too shy: This symptom is complicated as well.  I don’t know if I would go as far as to say that being too shy is selfish per se; but being shy does stunt improvement.  You have to be assertive if you want to get better! You can’t be too shy to ask questions. You can’t be too shy to reach out and ask for help from your coach.  You can’t be too shy to verbally communicate on offense and defense.  Most kids aren’t shy when it comes to texting, Twitter, and Facebook… but they quickly go into a shell when expected to speak face to face.

 If you are trying to be the best player you can be… to maximize your potential and play at the highest level possible… you can’t be too cool, too good, or too shy.  You need to find a cure for the ‘disease of me.’


1st Annual Guard Academy

Ballin with Barber / Organic Hoopz Gives Back with their 1st Annual Guard Academy

Coach Darrell Barber and Ronald Steele hosted their 1st Annual Guard Academy Basketball Camp at Midfield Recreation Center. Over 30 participants showed up for the event. The camp was a huge success. Coach Darrell Barber of Midfield High School along with former Alabama standout Ronald Steele gave their time along with Coach Matthew Epps and former Grambling State Standout Taye Walker. Campers receive instruction on what it takes to be a guard in today’s game. Special shouts to Miss State’s Brittany Young, East Miss C.C.’s  Asia Bragg and Hoover’s Breion Allen for providing instruction to the campers.

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Don’t Say Can’t!

Don’t Say Can’t

By Alan Stein edited by Darrell Barber

The absolute worst 4 letter word in the English language is ‘can’t. Can’t is disempowering. ‘Can’t slows progress. Can’t stunts success.

If you want to be successful, on or off the court, you need to eliminate can’t from you vocabulary when referring to things you have 100% control over… such as attitude, effort, and focus.

Don’t tell me you ‘can’t eat breakfast because you’re not hungry.’

Or you ‘can’t make 300 shots a day because you don’t have someone to rebound for you.’  Or you ‘can’t do another pull-up because your arms are tired.’

We both know that is BS! You can always do more than you think you can.  Instead, just be honest with yourself, and say won’t.

“I won’t eat breakfast, I won’t make 300 shots, and I won’t do another pull-up.”

Changes the perspective, huh?

Do you think you have any shot at being successful if you won’t do those types of things?

 Not a chance!!!

A Champions Mindset

  • Believe in yourselflove your talent
  • Challenge limiting beliefsunlock your true potential
  • Motivate yourself from withinset personal goals
  • Think like a championconsistent mind equals consistent performance
  • Visualize successsee it, feel it, believe it, be it
  • Mentally prepare for competitioncreate a consistent pre-game routine
  • Approach each game the sameconsistency leads to success
  • Welcome pressureembrace all challenges and obstacles as opportunities
  • Play to play greatnot to avoid mistakes
  • Focus on the moment at handstay ‘present’ when you compete
  • Trust your abilitiesplay without worry
  • Competeevery moment and every play
  • Control what you canlet everything else go
  • Keep it simplefocus on the next play
  • Attitude, effort, and focus are in your controldiscipline yourself
  • Learn from losswisdom often lies in defeat
  • Write your own storyhow do you want to be remembered
  • Commit to the mental gamework on your mental skills every day
  • Love hard worklearn to be comfortable being uncomfortable

Commit yourself to living these ‘sound bytes’ and you will take a huge step forward in maximizing your potential on the court.